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Sister didn't co-sign, but landlord says she's liable

14/07/2014 17:02

Q Last December my sister asked me to co-sign on an apartment for her. I told her that I would. I left a message for her landlord saying who I was and that I was calling about co-signing for my sister.

Two weeks went by and my sister was allowed to move into the apartment. Her landlord asked for my contact information, which I wrote on part of the lease application.

He was then supposed to send me information and then contact me to discuss the situation. Shortly after this, I found out that my sister could not afford her apartment and was already late on her first payment.

I told her that I was not comfortable co-signing for her (as I was a relatively poor medical student at the time) and she agreed to get a different co-signer.

About one month later in mid-January I received co-signer agreements from her landlord, asking me to sign. I wrote him a letter telling him that I was not going to be the co-signer and that my sister was going to have someone else do it. He supposedly was fine with this as my sister did not hear from him again until she moved out.

At the time she moved out she was late on many charges and owed almost $1,600.

That landlord is now taking us to small-claims court for these outstanding charges, which I think my sister should pay. He says that I should be liable because I had agreed to co-sign for her and he would not have let her into the house if I hadn't done so.

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My argument is that we never even had a verbal, let alone written, agreement.

A Since you never agreed in writing to guarantee your sister's lease, the landlord should not be able to argue that you are responsible for her debt to the landlord.

Obviously, it was understood at the beginning that you would have to sign something in order to be held liable, and the fact that he never got your signature is pretty good evidence that you should not be liable.

You could also state that it is unfair for the landlord to try to hold you liable for an agreement that you never even got to see. I assume you usually read through something before you sign it, and since you never even got that opportunity, because you never saw an agreement until after you told him you were not co-signing for your sister, you should not be held liable for the $1,600.

If the landlord continues to mention the promise that you made, you can argue that the landlord, once he knew that you were not going to be liable for your sister's rent, should have immediately evicted your sister.

Since he allowed her to stay there, obviously the promise by you was not really the only reason he rented to your sister.

Q My lease specifies which vendor will clean my carpet upon my vacating the unit. I would like my deposit back without having to haggle over this issue.

A By signing the lease you agreed to the owner's terms of requiring the carpets to be cleaned by a particular company. The owner wants to make sure the cleaner is qualified.

If this is an issue for you now, you should contact the owner regarding cleaning the carpets and ask that he/she agree to a different company or perhaps let you clean it yourself.

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Being Rahul Gandhi What can the Congress scion do to win India's lovebr

14/07/2014 17:01

Why the smile? Rahul Gandhi's expression as he took the blame for the Congress's defeat aroused anger in some quarters

On the night before the big CWC meet, Rahul Gandhi and a male friend went for a quiet dinner at a local Italian restaurant.

With a modest security presence, the beleaguered scion of the oldest political party in the country, who was being driven around in an old model Honda, seemed relaxed, almost normal.

Relieved? It's hard to say so given the inscrutability that marks the Gandhis - to their growing disadvantage.

However tellingly, Rahul, the man who could be Prime Minister, decided to spend the night before a career-defining meeting not in a huddle analysing the aftermath of this astounding electoral slaying, but by dining out.

This is not a judgment so much as an indicator of the increasing loneliness, and dare one suggest, reluctance of a man thrust into a role defined by history.

He has been judged a failure (though not on the record) by many within and outside the fold of his party, and would have to enjoy the insularity of Prince Siddhartha (later the Buddha, the enlightened one) not to have noticed.

Incapacity This election season has been bracketed by messages from him that defy political instinct. Starting with the "tearing up" of the ordinance and ending with skipping Manmohan Singh's farewell dinner.

However, just a little over a week ago in Kashi the same man had Muslim women climbing onto the roofs of their homes to shower rose petals on him.

This leads one to question not his celebrity, which was evident to all those who were in Kashi that heady day, but his ability to deliver votes for the Congress.

Thanks to the Modi factor, Ajay Rai, the Congress candidate, got a dismal 75,614 votes and came in third. But then again, was he only being used as per the conditions that seem to underline the transactional relationship between the Gandhis and the Congress party?

Rai was not a winning candidate. Whilst some voters did like him, he was not respected by anyone as a leader.

Known to be a "bahubali" and a political opportunist, he had traded in the Bhumihar votes of his community for support from the man accused in the killing of his own brother.

As their procession glided by, some kids commented on Rai's "mafia" status and asked why Rahul was with him. Out of the mouths of babes – what was Rahul Gandhi doing supporting a man known for his unsavoury past? Did it not at a very basic level negate all that he claimed to stand for?

It is this kind of schizophrenic non-verbal dialog that Rahul has with the people of this country that defeats his "communication" strategy. This is but one example.

UPA chairperson Sonia Gandhi has long tried to shield her son - and he has operated in her shadow

Shielded Rahul Gandhi, by most accounts, was genuine in his attempts at bringing democracy to a deeply fractured, sycophantic party, despite internal opposition. This electoral failure will have set that process of inner democratisation back.

For a party lacking in imagination, he will now be called upon to be more like Modi, exercise tighter control and lead the party from the front.

For the outside world, he will remain an entitled "lost cause" forever shielded by the same sycophancy that he is seen to reject in speech and yet nurture with actions.

Rahul, who has been quick to take offense at Modi's taunt of shehzaada, failed to see the piercing insight behind it. It was not a disparaging reference alone, but also a collective noun. The culture of sycophancy has birthed many shehzaadas in the Congress, right down to the grassroot level.

An on-the-ground survey of Kashi was enough to display how little work was being done, but for the day before Rahul's rally when fancy SUVs with Congress flags were spotted zipping around town as other political parties carried out pad yatras.

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Indulged A screen of collective hubris has shielded Rahul Gandhi in his ten-odd years in political life. He is accommodated as a necessity but not a leader (as loosely defined as the term may be, or as often used).

That he could not stand up to a man with multiple terms of successful chief ministership behind him, over a dozen years of battling adverse public opinion and the courts and decades in political life, is unsurprising if you change the prism through which you view an even contest.

But who will, with honesty and humility, admit to the unfairness of such a match-up?

If this were a straightforward job application, would Rahul Gandhi - given his current experience - qualify to be Prime Minister?

In all fairness, he seems to know the answer to that and has resisted the call of "duty" demanded of his lineage.

But do those around him take him seriously or familiarise him with ground realities? Even when he does what is right, he is weighed down by perception. Why else would his declining of high office be construed as escaping responsibility?

Rahul Gandhi may well be a brat, or a misunderstood well-meaning man, but it is clear that no matter what the party says he is not a leader of appeal going by these results.

Not in the eyes of the country, or its young people whose icon the Congress insists he is. Not as yet, anyway.

To be accepted as a leader of this country is a far greater challenge than being one of a political party that is tied to you in a relationship of mutual gratification.

A vibrant democracy will need a constructive opposition in parliament, and while on the one hand one celebrates a decisive verdict, on another, the lack of a credible opposition is one of concern.

The road ahead will be a relatively lonely one, but if Rahul understands that the conundrum of being him is that - despite his dynastic privileges - he fails repeatedly at being his own man, he may have taken the first step.

(The writer scripted the story of the critically acclaimed film Kahaani)

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Shell be presenting pieces at a booth at the Double Decker

24/04/2014 09:54

Shell be presenting pieces at a booth at the Double Decker Arts Festival in Oxford this weekend."Everyone has a t-shirt with a coffee stain that sits in the back of her closet," says Nancy Lublin, CEO and "Chief Old Person" at DoSomething.Doesnt look that way: New Yorks apparel-making employment in March was 2 percent lower than a year ago, according to BLS data.

She's aiming for something "hip and edgy" with her new venture.So Im bringing my expertise to them, saying We tried that and it was a disaster, so dont try that, do this.So we decided to fix it.But that mix of fashionable and inexpensive has built the chain (which first opened in Dublin in 1969) into 200 stores in the British Isles alone, with dozens more on the continent.

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A doctor, not a bureaucrat, should be in charge of Health and Human Services

24/04/2014 09:44

The torch has been passed to a new generation of Americans," Jack Kennedy famously said in his 1961 inaugural address, a phrase once swollen with optimism and American pride.  

It may be tempting for President Obama to use this same expression now to describe Health and Human Services Secretary (Baby Boomer) Sebelius handing off the HHS secretarial torch to her apparent (Generation X) replacement, Sylvia Burwell, but such a sentiment would be false optimism.

It is time for a physician or an expert in health care to administer Health and Human Services, not another numbers-massaging manager, no matter how able.
It is time for a physician or an expert in health care to administer Health and Human Services, not another numbers-massaging manager, no matter how able.

It is easy to forget that Secretary Sebelius was once Kansas Insurance Commissioner. This qualified her to administer health insurance, not health care.

Though she certainly helped to fumble the ObamaCare website rollout, an even greater misdeed was her inability to anticipate how the arrival of ObamaCare could translate into less care and less access and higher premiums for those who already have insurance.

HHS stands for "Health and Human Services," not Health and Insurance Services. Only a doctor who deals with ObamaCare every day can attest to the problems the growing insurance bureaucracy pose to actual patient care.

Here are some actual questions that come up in my office:  

1. Is that patient eligible to see Dr. Siegel or is his insurance expired?

2. How come Dr. Siegel is listed as a Blue Cross provider but is not part of the Blue Cross network for policies offered on the state exchange?

3. Can Dr. Siegel's patient Victoria Scott afford the care she needs for her thyroid condition when she has a whooping deductible (almost $6000) on her Bronze plan?

It hardly matters to doctors and their patients what the cumulative numbers are for new enrollees on the state exchanges, and how many of these folks were actually uninsured beforehand (the latest RAND data suggests less than half). What matters most is what kind of care these patients can get and at what cost, and whether we doctors can still afford to take care of them.

Sylvia Burwell said at a recent Atlantic magazine event that the Affordable Care Act “is about improving access…about improving the quality of health care.”

Unfortunately, there is no evidence that the new law does either one.

Contrast Burwell’s abstract statement to the practical wisdom of Senator John Barrasso, M.D., a practicing orthopedist for many years and former Wyoming Physician of the Year.

He wrote in Investor’s Business Daily about how ObamaCare interferes with the real world doctor/patient relationship: “I continue to hear from my patients in Wyoming. They have always had my home phone number. They are anxious and angry. They know what they wanted from health care reform: access to quality, affordable care…That's not what they got with this law. Now, many face losing the doctor who has always been there for them.”

Dr. Barrasso would make a terrific HHS secretary, unfortunately, President Obama would likely never consider such a move.

Sylvia Burwell may be a capable budget director, and her track record with the Clinton administration, the Gates and Walmart Foundations certainly shows that she is an able politician, but where is the evidence that she can manage a health care system that is becoming more complex by the day?

In the era of personalized health care, where genetic advances in cancer research and risk assessment predict both diseases and their expensive treatments on a patient by patient basis, the one-size-fits-all insurance model is becoming increasingly out of date. The more complex our health care solutions, the more unaffordable or inadequate ObamaCare will be.

Sylvia Burwell may do a better job presenting the latest insurance numbers to the public, but she will be no more qualified in deciding whether an 11-year-old like Sarah Murnaghan should get a life-saving lung transplant with adult lungs than Kathleen Sebelius was.

HHS needs a physician or at least a bio-engineer to navigate through the treacherous ObamaCare waters, not another insurance expert to sell us yet another policy to cover our mammograms and our colonoscopies even as our collective ship sinks


Dr. Marc Siegel, a practicing internist, joined FOX News Channel (FNC) as a contributor in 2008.

From https://www.foxnews.com/opinion/2014/04/23/doctor-not-bureaucrat-should-be-in-charge-health-and-human-services/

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Distressed parents: Prom dresses too short, too sexy

17/04/2014 15:10

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Editor's note: Kelly Wallace is CNN's digital correspondent and editor-at-large covering family, career and life. She is a mom of two. Read her other columns and follow her reports at CNN Parents and on Twitter.
(CNN) -- For Holly Manson, a mom of three teens in Oakland, Maine, one simple saying has made the difference between absolute dread during prom season and actually welcoming the rite of passage.
"'I always told my girls to 'dress classy not trashy' and so when they make their clothing choices, they tend to go towards the classy stuff," said Manson, who responded to a request for comment on CNN's Facebook page.
It's a saying, she says, that just popped into her head around the time her girls, now 14 and 18, and her son, 16, started middle school.
All the inappropriate clothing Manson saw while out shopping with her kids inspired the mantra. "To be honest with you, that one phrase has saved us so many headaches."
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Many other parents around the country haven't been so lucky. Trips to the mall in spring are steeped in a potent mix of prom angst: teenage girls shopping for the perfect dress, selections bordering on the wildly inappropriate to many parents, and a culture sexualizing girls at younger and younger ages.
Can I just say right here I'm already freaking out and my girls, ages 6 and 8, are years away from prom time?
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"16, 17, 18-year-olds should not be in dresses with thigh-high slits, necklines that plunge precariously close to the belly button, backs that are cut so low as to expose butt dimples," said a mother named Judith on CNN's Facebook page. "Parents need to step in and stop this 'beyond the age' dressing."
In some cases, schools are not leaving it up to the parents and are imposing their own dress codes for prom. One Northern California Catholic high school sent an e-mail to parents announcing that attire for junior and senior prom should "be moderate and reflect pride in both the person and the school."
The e-mail, obtained by CNN, actually also included pictures of dresses deemed acceptable and those considered inappropriate. On the banned list were low-cut and backless dresses and dresses with very high hemlines.
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Manson, the Maine mom of three, doesn't think dress codes are the answer. "I know the town over from us requires that their dresses have a strap," she said with a laugh. "It has to have a strap but it's OK if it comes up to their butt cheek."
Boys don't have many variations on the traditional tux to choose from when planning prom attire, so they typically don't have to deal with others judging them due to their clothing choice. But when kids dress in ways that are gender nonconforming, or even when a boy wants to wear a kilt, they can get into trouble with school administrators too.
Parents and teens: Not enough choices
Another frustration I heard from parents and even some teens is that there just aren't enough moderate options -- both in terms of sexiness and price -- available in stores and online.
"I would say the problem is ... that a girl who has sort of a more modern taste ... if (the dresses) are for someone her age, they're too short. They're shorter than they should be," said a mom of two teens. Dresses can also cost hundreds of dollars, which most parents either can't pay or won't pay, she added.
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A 17-year-old named Angela, currently shopping for a prom dress, says it's not that most teenagers want to wear revealing prom dresses. It's because they often have no other choice.
"I feel as if it is not that teenage tastes have grown 'too sexy' but that the fashion market as a whole encourages young people to dress in a provocative way," she said via e-mail.
"When I go to department stores, the majority of prom dresses there seem to have some sort of cut-out on the back or the sides. Otherwise, they are completely unflattering," Angela added.
But an editor at Seventeen magazine, which just released its 291-page annual prom issue, says there are plenty of options.
CNN\'s Kelly Wallace, a mom of two elementary school age girls, is already freaking out about prom dress shopping.
CNN's Kelly Wallace, a mom of two elementary school age girls, is already freaking out about prom dress shopping.
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"There literally is something for everyone, for every body type, for any kind of school regulation, if you have rules or dress codes, anything like that," said Jasmine Snow, accessories editor for Seventeen. "I think it's just about finding the right resources," she said, suggesting Seventeen's dress guide, which includes many style options.
The key, says Snow, is for a girl to find a dress she'll feel good and confident wearing. "It also has to be something that your parents feel good about having you wear as well, and I think it's about having that compromise between the parent and the teenager."
"It could be a simple conversation of, 'Let's just make sure that we're both on the same page' ... about what is expected and what is important," said Snow, who said the shopping experience for teen girls is just as important as the actual prom itself. "You don't want to have some big fight in the store, then you don't get anything done."
Growing up too fast
So many parents, this reporter among them, are concerned about how our girls are growing up so much faster than when we were kids. Clearly, we can't blame prom dresses as the single cause, but they're a factor.
"Clothing definitely plays a role in the sexualization of our girls, so from prom dresses to starter bras to shorts, I believe we need to show our girls a broader range of options so they can choose the style that works for them," said Sharon Choksi, a mom of two in Austin, Texas, who got so fed up with the "short shorts" and "teeny bikinis" she started her own clothing company, Girls Will Be.
"Girls today receive so many messages that they should focus on their appearance and act more grown-up. I don't want my daughter thinking that is what is most important and is how people will value her," said Choksi.
Manson, the Maine mom of three, said the issue is not just about the dress and whether it's too short or too sexy; it's about how teenage girls portray themselves as well.
"If you go and dress trashy and slutty and promiscuous, that's what you're going to attract to yourself," she said. "It dictates your behavior as well."
What happens when you put your fears aside
Not every parent considers shopping for a teenage daughter's prom dress about as welcome as, let's say, a root canal, doing taxes or cleaning the bathroom.
"As a single dad, the entire prom experience was just one more experience I actually looked forward to with my daughter," said Jim Higley, an award-winning author and national fatherhood advocate.
"Clothes shopping, shoe shopping -- all the things that are important to my daughter -- they're important to me," the father of three and author of the book "Bobblehead Dad" said.
For Tracey Clark of Huntington Beach, California, a mom of two girls and a Babble.com contributor, shopping for prom and other school dance dresses has been so positive she even posted a video online of one of her shopping excursions with her 16-year-old daughter.
Tracey Clark took this photo during a dress shopping outing with her daughter Julia.
Tracey Clark took this photo during a dress shopping outing with her daughter Julia.
She credits her happy experiences with planning (they shop for dresses very far in advance) and plain luck. Her daughter has kind of a retro style and doesn't gravitate to the provocative stuff, said Clark, who hosts a blog in her own name and contributes photographs to the collaborative blog Shutter Sisters.
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"But there are dresses where I'm like, 'Babe, I know you don't like short short things on you and this one from the back looks short short,'" said Clark.
And, when she's with her daughter and sees girls wearing short skirts, she'll point them out. "I'll say, 'Oh, I wonder if she knows how short that is?'" she said with a laugh. "My daughter's like, 'Oh, that's heartbreaking. Look Mom, you can almost see her underwear.'"
Do you think prom dresses have gotten too sexy and skimpy? Chime in in the comments or tell Kelly Wallace on Twitter or CNN Living on Facebook.
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